How To Stop Sabotaging Your Money Goals And Start Enjoying The Success That You Want (Mindset + Tips)

If you find yourself making a certain amount of progress and then stopping or throwing a spanner in the works then some mindset work around self sabotage could be extremely helpful for you on your journey to achieve your goals and enjoy success that is meaningful for you.

There can be many reasons why we behave in seemingly self sabotaging ways but when it comes down to it, it’s mostly around what we feel safe experiencing and what we feel we deserve.

In MMS Academy, we have specific trainings around normalising being at the income level that you want and releasing self sabotaging behaviour.

Here are 3 ways to stop sabotaging your money goals and start enjoying the lifestyle that you want:


We tend to sabotage things that don’t feel safe or normal for us and then go back to what does.

In MMS Academy, we have specific trainings around normalising living the lifestyle that you want and achieving your income goals.

Look for ways to start normalising the lifestyle you want, here are some ideas:

Normalise having more money in your account than you are used to by leaving it in there for 14 days before deciding what to spend some of it on.

Slowly but consistently raise your fees so that you get used to charging and receiving more money.

What are you putting off investing In or enjoying “until you’re successful” ? Start to do those things now.


What do you need to believe about yourself to be where you want to be and enjoy it ? How do you need to see yourself?

Everything starts with identify and how we see ourselves, so let’s go a little deeper here…

As the version of yourself that is perfectly comfortable and confident achieving their goals and enjoying it, how would you be showing up in the world? What would you be doing differently that you are now?

Begin to make those shifts now, you deserve it.

Self talk

The most important voice in your life is the one you speak to yourself with.

As someone who achieved their goals and allowed themselves to ENJOY it, what would your self talk be like?

Here are some ideas for you:

I deserve this

I belong here

This is safe for me

This is easy for me

I give myself full and complete permission to be here and ENJOY it

What else can you think of? Say these to yourself as much as you need to and cultivate feelings of safety and deserving as you work towards achieving your goals and enjoying changes that are meaningful for you.

Two bonus money mindset coaching questions for you are:

What do I need to feel safe?

What do I need to feel and know I deserve this?

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